"Life was good, people were good but I was not expected to live that life as I was the only bad person among the good ones" The last note police found from pocket when they discover a dead body.
A boy of age 27 was found dead under a tree near a park. People standing near him were talking about what might had happened to him that he committed suicide, through what pain he was suffering from that he found suicide as a solution towards his problem .People were now standing beside his dead body while police was informing his family members.
We in our life come across different situation and have heard different stories of what people do, how they live and each story teach us a lesson and change our point of view towards what life really is. The dead body of a young boy also left a story behind to teach people what life is and how they can avoid to lose their loved ones.
The story he left behind left a lot of questions for his beloved ones,
"The day he was born, his parents named him as Feroz. As every child lives his early years happily, without knowing what will he face next,he too enjoyed his early years until the day he joined school. He was good in studies and his parents tried their best teach him in the best institution of that city but with the passage of time as he grew older, he lose that interest. He had no one to talk too, his brothers attitude towards him was never good and they treat him like he was not their real brother.
He still somehow managed to make some friends so as to live life and bring some peace in it despite of his brothers behavior towards him. His parents loved him very much and were the only person sincere to him, care about him but they criticize him too because of his attitude towards his studies. He was making mistake, he was not giving enough time to his studies and was spending much of his time with his friends that's what people knew but what they didn't knew was he was doing this all so as to escape a brain disease which in the end ultimately led you to a stage where you lose interest in life, a disease people mostly call as depression.
He with the passage of time grew older and at the age of 23 he was still struggling hard to give time to studies and complete it and with the passage of time his parents attitude towards him also changed, they care about him but also criticize him so that he had a bright future. His parents were believing that their criticism will in the end urge their son to study and focus on his goals but what they didn't knew were that they were doing destructive criticism.
Feroz somehow managed to survive all that criticism and tried so as to focus on studies. He was trying to make a new start and to work hard so as to live upto the expectations of his family member but his family members and friends were not letting him forget the past and whenever he managed to standup, his family members and friends show him what mistakes he had made in past, they make him feel like he had done a sin. His family members even his parents now started avoiding him because he failed to live up to their expectations. Whenever they saw him, they got angry and criticize him and tell him that now his future has destroyed and he will never be able to make it better again.
Brothers attitude towards him was not good, Parents also stopped believing in him, friends started making fun of his problems. He was not following the rules his parents had made for him to live a life and because of that the only person he believed, will help him also asked him to stop discussing problems with them. His parents still loved him but they were doing this all so that he should know how to live a life, they were thinking that their attitude was helping him but that's what cost him his life. He soon began to lose interest in what we call as a life.
He was now feeling guilty, he was considering himself the most bad person anyone could be. He was considering himself as the "Devil among Angels". He was so much depressed that he was considering himself responsible for making his beloved ones life miserable, making their life more difficult.
He with the passage of time grew older and at the age of 23 he was still struggling hard to give time to studies and complete it and with the passage of time his parents attitude towards him also changed, they care about him but also criticize him so that he had a bright future. His parents were believing that their criticism will in the end urge their son to study and focus on his goals but what they didn't knew were that they were doing destructive criticism.
Feroz somehow managed to survive all that criticism and tried so as to focus on studies. He was trying to make a new start and to work hard so as to live upto the expectations of his family member but his family members and friends were not letting him forget the past and whenever he managed to standup, his family members and friends show him what mistakes he had made in past, they make him feel like he had done a sin. His family members even his parents now started avoiding him because he failed to live up to their expectations. Whenever they saw him, they got angry and criticize him and tell him that now his future has destroyed and he will never be able to make it better again.
Brothers attitude towards him was not good, Parents also stopped believing in him, friends started making fun of his problems. He was not following the rules his parents had made for him to live a life and because of that the only person he believed, will help him also asked him to stop discussing problems with them. His parents still loved him but they were doing this all so that he should know how to live a life, they were thinking that their attitude was helping him but that's what cost him his life. He soon began to lose interest in what we call as a life.
He was now feeling guilty, he was considering himself the most bad person anyone could be. He was considering himself as the "Devil among Angels". He was so much depressed that he was considering himself responsible for making his beloved ones life miserable, making their life more difficult.
He was fed up of himself and was thinking upon an idea to get rid of all problems and then he realize that only solution to problems was he, himself. He was at that stage of depression that the only solution he had was quitting his life. Which he think, would ease the pain and struggle of his family members. For him his absence will help his family members live happily so he decided that now he will never ever share his problems with anyone and will soon leave his beloved ones so as to add some value after dying which he fail to add while living a life.
But after spending hours, thinking about his decision he decided not to give up and will try his best to overcome depression and all the difficulties he was facing in life irrespective of whether anyone will support him or not but saddest part of his life was what he don't know. Life didn't allow him to make a new start.
One day while travelling towards his home he came across some thieves who on gun point tried to take his bike, but he knew that if he lost his bike too, his family members will consider him useless so he didn't give his bike due to which thieves shot him and threw his dead body under a tree.T he note which police founded was written a few weeks ago when Feroz was thinking about quitting but police so as to close case as quickly as possible reported it as a suicide case without knowing what actually happened and a youngster died with many dreams."
Feroz had faced many problems, he was always a Devil among Angels, but life was so cruel that even after dying he was labeled as doing suicide. Life it is, it plays game with you in such a way that you don't even understand what reality really was, Feroz too died with many dreams and his life ended in a way people now were thinking as another mistake of him.
Beware of what you speak to others, what you say to others, your words may destroy others life and can led them to depression. Sometimes in your life, your beloved one criticize you for your own good but sometimes they fail to differentiate between constructive and destructive criticism.
But after spending hours, thinking about his decision he decided not to give up and will try his best to overcome depression and all the difficulties he was facing in life irrespective of whether anyone will support him or not but saddest part of his life was what he don't know. Life didn't allow him to make a new start.
One day while travelling towards his home he came across some thieves who on gun point tried to take his bike, but he knew that if he lost his bike too, his family members will consider him useless so he didn't give his bike due to which thieves shot him and threw his dead body under a tree.T he note which police founded was written a few weeks ago when Feroz was thinking about quitting but police so as to close case as quickly as possible reported it as a suicide case without knowing what actually happened and a youngster died with many dreams."
Feroz had faced many problems, he was always a Devil among Angels, but life was so cruel that even after dying he was labeled as doing suicide. Life it is, it plays game with you in such a way that you don't even understand what reality really was, Feroz too died with many dreams and his life ended in a way people now were thinking as another mistake of him.
Beware of what you speak to others, what you say to others, your words may destroy others life and can led them to depression. Sometimes in your life, your beloved one criticize you for your own good but sometimes they fail to differentiate between constructive and destructive criticism.
A destructive criticism can led to depression and eventually urge that person to suicide or quit life, no matter with what intention are you doing criticism, destructive criticism will only led your beloved ones to a stage where they will hate their own life and will feel like guilty.
For me destructive criticism which led a person to do suicide is like a murder attempt, you don't need any knife or gun to kill a person, you just need words which can break heart and can discourage a certain person and leave the rest to them, they will suicide and you will not be charged with a murder attempt. We People don't understand cruelty of words and how it can effect a person. We murder a person by our words and in the end a person who is murdered is labeled as a "Devil among Angels" . We behave as the person being killed was the one making mistake and doing wrong and every other person was right.
If you ask me a who are devils among angels, I will say , " A person who fail to live up to the expectaions of his beloved ones or failed to follow their rule, is the devil among their beloved ones who all are angels".
Your beloved ones criticize you, make rules for you to follow and if you fail to follow those rules and live up to their expectation, you are not expected to live, that's how people will treat you and will make you realize.
But,
You must have to tell that suicide isn't an option, Sometimes you will be left all alone with no one there to help you, so you must not look for someone's else shoulder and should try to figure out solution of your problems without expecting from people that they will help. Never ever listen to the words of people and stay away from negative ones, and if beloved ones are doing criticism which is discouraging you, help them realize their mistake.
Life is like a blank book given to you so as to write it, it is you who have to decide what to write in it and what not to, you must have to take decision because book is yours and only you are allowed to write it. Yes, you can take suggestions from others to improve it but not let other decide how your book should be written. Go ahead fill it with what you want and you surely will end it on a good note but if you being afraid of others, will write it on decisions being made by them you will fail to complete that book and will left it incomplete.
Go ahead and complete your book even if you have to become a "Devil among Angels".
For me destructive criticism which led a person to do suicide is like a murder attempt, you don't need any knife or gun to kill a person, you just need words which can break heart and can discourage a certain person and leave the rest to them, they will suicide and you will not be charged with a murder attempt. We People don't understand cruelty of words and how it can effect a person. We murder a person by our words and in the end a person who is murdered is labeled as a "Devil among Angels" . We behave as the person being killed was the one making mistake and doing wrong and every other person was right.
If you ask me a who are devils among angels, I will say , " A person who fail to live up to the expectaions of his beloved ones or failed to follow their rule, is the devil among their beloved ones who all are angels".
Your beloved ones criticize you, make rules for you to follow and if you fail to follow those rules and live up to their expectation, you are not expected to live, that's how people will treat you and will make you realize.
But,
You must have to tell that suicide isn't an option, Sometimes you will be left all alone with no one there to help you, so you must not look for someone's else shoulder and should try to figure out solution of your problems without expecting from people that they will help. Never ever listen to the words of people and stay away from negative ones, and if beloved ones are doing criticism which is discouraging you, help them realize their mistake.
Life is like a blank book given to you so as to write it, it is you who have to decide what to write in it and what not to, you must have to take decision because book is yours and only you are allowed to write it. Yes, you can take suggestions from others to improve it but not let other decide how your book should be written. Go ahead fill it with what you want and you surely will end it on a good note but if you being afraid of others, will write it on decisions being made by them you will fail to complete that book and will left it incomplete.
Go ahead and complete your book even if you have to become a "Devil among Angels".
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