He was born with a challenge to face, but he didn't knew what was the challenge until he grew 5 years old, now as he was seeing the world with his own eyes he understood that life had been cruel to him since the day he was born but he being a child realized it now. He was born disable, his legs were so weak so as to support his whole body and to make him stand up. Reason behind realizing too late by his parents was also that he used to stand for few minutes and sat down and his parents thought that every child has it's own age to walk, he might be able to walk when the right time comes but now as he became 5 years old his parents started worrying about him, they took him to doctor so as to satisfy themselves that their child has no disability and he will walk soon but what doctor told them was like a nightmare to them, they never had expected of what difficulty there child was in and now they began to worry about how their boy will survive in this world but they somehow managed to gather the strength so as to help their boy survive.
They took care of their boy and tried their best not to let their boy feel alone or feel like he is incomplete. They being the parents tried their best to fulfill every wish he had wished for but how long parents can help him, in the end he was the one who has to face those challenges when his parent will not be around him but he too closed his eyes from the challenges he had to face till the day he had to step and deal with other people.
He from the very first day of his school faced challenges, people around him, his classmates make fun of him too as he was unable to walk and he being a boy only 7 years old had to deal with challenges, which other people even if at the age of 20 or 30 had to face challenge start complaining that there life is so difficult but if somebody would have asked that 7 year old boy what challenges he was facing they would have forgotten their challenges.
He was facing a new challenge each and everyday, at the age of 7 when every child plays, he used to sit on his wheel chair and watched them play, how painful was it for him, but he still was smiling as he realized soon that he was blessed with what others are not, he was born intelligent, he can understand things which a normal boy of his age may find difficult to understand and it looks like he was challenging the life too, if life had come up with challenges he was there with his arms open to accept those challenges and as time passes he grew older and completed his school but now as each level has it's own difficulty he had to face even a more difficult challenge but he was behaving like he was supposed to face those challenges or he was born only so as to let the world knew that his disability was not the hurdle towards his goals, if he remain determined he can face any challenge and so did he, he achieved what he was aiming for and he decided to help those people who were facing the situation he had been through.
Life is not that hard as you think it is, your problems or challenges are not that much difficult to face, you will think of ending your life at some stage because of the struggle you will be going through but if you somehow realize how difficult life is of a disabled person you might not complain for the difficulties you are in.
Look life if takes away from you one thing in return it gives you other thing so as replacement to what had been taken from you or what you are missing in life, if you are a disable person then maybe you are gifted with such qualities which an ordinary person may not have, you may have a brain which can turn around things the way world have been looking too, you may have a mind which will help you achieve things in life at that age where people are just wishing to achieve, you may have any other quality, maybe life gifts you strength so as to deal with all problems which being a normal person becomes difficult to face, never underestimate yourself just because you are not blessed with what others are blessed with, try to see things in a positive way and you will see that what you are blessed with others are not, life if comes up with challenges or difficulties it also gives you a strength to bear those difficulties.
Have you noticed that sometimes you come across such situation, you face with courage and bravery which other people might have given up to, have you noticed that people who are born rich can't deal with difficulties a poor person is dealing with, that's what strength is, that's what you are gifted with so never sell yourself short only because you don't have what others have or you are disable.
Remember humanity is what makes you a human being and if you being a human being makes fun of other people who are disabled then you are not supposed to be called as a human being, if you are laughing at someone else then remember he is not the one who is disable infect you are the one mentally disabled.
Let the humanity in yourself lives, let first try to be a human being then what you are trying to be. So for me disable person are the most brave person I have met so far as they even after dealing with what life has come up with are still wearing smile on their faces and are ready to welcome those challenges.
Lets suppose you being an apple tree are supposed to have apple and to give it to people who are waiting but if you failed to have apples, you don't have right to be called as an apple tree because for being an apple tree you must have apples on tree, same is the case with being human, if you don't have humanity you don't have the right to be called as a human being because meaning of being a human is that you have humanity in yourself.
And you being a disable person, should also not sell yourself short as you have a purpose to live, you are like a green chili no one wants to eat but if added in food it makes the food taste good, same is the case with your disability, for once it will look like you don't have a purpose to live but what ability life has gifted you others don't have, you just have to figure out your abilities rather than thinking of what disabilities you have, either you can end like a green chili or you can add yourself in food so as to make that food taste good. Never lose hope, you just have to be you and you will achieve what you are aiming for.
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